I made this blog to respond to people because I hate "asking" questions since half the time people don't respond and the other half I forget who I messaged. I might post other things too. People are welcome to ask me questions though. 29/f/pansexual
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Tgif. One more work day to bear. #repost #tgif #feminism
Soooo I can’t have sex if I want to read?
I can’t blow someone if I want to be intelligent?
How about no, stop your slut shaming.
It’s okay to be an intelligent slut, play your cards well. Someone sounds angry.
“someone sounds angry” is one of those things a person says when they want to discredit someone else for having emotions because those emotions aren’t positive toward the shitty things the person is saying.
tbh I’d be angry too if i thought i could either have sex or read a book when in reality i can do both (well just not at the same time [unless the sex was boring])
also this is so super misogynist plus being heterocentric. boring. let me make it better
Guess what? The pressure you feel to equate to a man? To fight to be as strong as men? To have sex and orgasm the same way men do? To look like men or talk like men? Yeah. That was your fault. Sexual revolution? Mid-20th century feminist movement? Yep. Well done. All you had to do was say “hey, women are cool the way they are”. But no.
yeah man all women had to do was say they were ok with not being able to vote, not being able to hold jobs or make money, ok with being raped by their husbands and being called frigid and sluts. all women had to do was just let the patriarchy win. yep. totally.
also rotflmao at that line about “to have sex and orgasm the same way men do” because people still don’t believe women WANT sex or can physically orgasm
i don’t wanna “orgasm the same way men do” because i think mine are way better anyway
One exchange in this video bothers me. I guess I have heard similar things in other situations, and I think it relates to the idea of perpetual victimhood.
Here is the last exchange between the magician and one of the girls:
(After the girl gives him her number during the magic routine.)
Magician: So that’s the best way to get a girl’s number, don’t you think?
Girl: You tricked me into it. Don’t you think that girls should give it, like, willingly?
Magician: You did.
Magician: Kind of.
Girl: Kind of.
No, you definitely gave it willingly.
Look, you have all the right in the world to feel uncomfortable and creeped out. Hell, I agree that if a guy uses this method to get someone’s number (without any interaction beforehand), it is pretty damn creepy. The guy asked you for the first 6 digits of your number and then later the last 4. At any point you could have said “sorry, I’m out of here”, but instead you gave him the number. Whose fault is that?
Feeling pressure to be polite doesn’t mean you get to excuse your own bad decision making. Time to start making smart decisions.
she did not give her number willingly. she gave part of it to him. and another part. she’s right though — when you ask a woman for contact information, being a real human instead of a trickster is probably a better way to go about it.
whose fault is it that society teaches women to be submissive and nice? if she would have said no, he would have probably taunted her about being scared or rude. that’s what happens. whose fault is it he was tricky to get it, lying instead of real?
my favorite disney movie…she’s one of the only princesses that liked the guy and had to work to get her happily ever after. in all the other movies..they kind of just fall in love with a random guy.
except Belle saved the prince, Mulan kicked so much ass, Nala came and saved Simba (though she’s not a “princess”), Jasmine didn’t give a shit about her father’s plans…I mean, I’m not hating on Ariel but Eric WAS a random guy.
No, I will not “lighten up” and yes, your sexist jokes that promote and encourage rape culture and misogyny are harmful and offensive. Being a feminist is not a joke. Actually speaking up about women’s rights and rape culture does not make me “crazy” or “uncool” or whatever. If you don’t agree with my views, I respect that. But please note that I WILL call you out for promoting oppressive ideals.
No, being a Feminist is not a joke. Your movement is fucking frightening because you’re largely a mass of quasi-religious nutjobs with cultlike overtones and a sense of entitlement that runs as deep as the fucking Marianas trench made all the worst by your constant mantra of how you’re all just poor feeble victims.
You never consider *anything* outside of your belief structure. Not your science, not your reason, not your discipline… it’s a fucking belief structure complete with sin, and deities and monsters.
You follow a fucking mythology and you’re entirely unaware of it. If you want to know what it’s like talking to a Feminist, go try to explain that the Universe is more than six thousand years old to a Creationist.
real talk dude: I just finally saw a photo of you and you are overweight. you spend a lot of time on your computer getting really angry at women who post stuff you don’t like. have you ever thought about focusing that negative energy you’re expelling on something positive like losing weight and getting in to shape?
you’ve been sitting on the internet sending angry and hateful messages for a long time, back since before 2008 according to chat logs posted on okcupid by women who you attacked. I think it might do a lot of help for you to stop being overweight and angry at all these women that you find by searching tumblr tags. it might be better for you to focus that energy on not being so lazy and fat. then again, I also hope the excess amount of fat in your belly actually kills you but that’s just me.
I mean, you look like you’re at least 40 or 50 in the pictures I see of you. it might be the ugly facial hair or the fact that you don’t take care of your basic needs physically (aka: you obviously do not work out and probably do not eat right) but you seem like you spend more of your time focusing on others when you could work more on treating yourself better.
only a suggestion. hope it helps you channel the negative energy you’re putting in to the world in to positive energy you can put in to your own self.
Oh. You mean how only 3 in 10 males survive to adult hood. How only 1 of those 3 will become head of a pride and be allowed to reproduce. The Second will be a a beta male who eats dead last, after the females and the cubs, but is expected to protect the kings territory from rival males. The third will be driven from the pack the moment he hit’s puberty and will most often end up dying prematurely of starvation. Unless he get’s lucky enough to take over another pack, killing the old lion or sending him out to die alone.
Men are animals. They have no self control and cannot be stopped and cannot be held accountable for their actions.
Well that part of the narrative certainly fits the rhetoric. In spite of the fact that all sexual assault account for only 4% of all violent crime all men are rapists until proven innocent. Of course that can only occur if they die never having raped anyone. So no living man is a non-rapist.
Women are humans though, and are in complete control of what they do and so it is up to them to control and stop men.
That’s the message I hear. Women are special little snowflakes who have no accountability for anything, but can also do anything a man can do. Even though they choose to avoid the jobs that kill men in staggering numbers.
How can someone believe these things and not think about the logic leaps, how it discounts that men are people with control over their actions.
Because denying men are human is how women get away with playing victim while exploiting men for everything they don’t want to do.
They cry “patriarchy” while picking the “lions” to rule the pack, and forcing the rest of us to fight to the death for scraps.
We can all be inhuman. The trick is to find the humanity in everyone, and make being THAT way more valuable than giving in to the animal in each of us.
We don’t have a chance of that if we are denying our darker sides to lay blame. Especially if we’ve thrown justice to the winds and just picked a group to pay for the sins of humanity.
Hey, idiot. The italics were me rephrasing an argument a MAN made to me.
MEN SAID THIS. I WAS QUOTING MEN. THIS WAS NOT WOMEN SAYING THIS. MEN. MEN. WHITE MEN. A WHITE MAN MADE THIS ARGUMENT.
What’s your point? You only LISTEN to men who spout hate speech so you can claim that’s all we do?
Knowing how you misandrists “rephrase” things you probably missed the OP’s actual point entirely.
After all, your talking points are mostly from debunked studies done by tabloid magazines from the 80’s.
When did I claim all men say this? When did I claim that’s all men do? Read like 3 posts back in this blog so you can see the quote I got it from. What talking points are you even talking about? When did tabloids do studies?
Are you this obtuse on purpose? It’s like you are so angry at women that even when a man is saying awful things you still blame it on women.